Ladies and gentlemen.. I need your help? When I was an adolescent(age 15 then), I had a boyfriend(age 16 then). So one night I spent the night at his house, I was sleeping (pretending actually) at the time when all of a sudden one of his sister's friends (age 17) walked in. I felt him sit down the bed and I heard her voice. He said "I feel bad for being a little too friendly with you" to her. She said "you shouldn't be". So then I hear her ask him If he would give her a back rub, he went ahead and did that. I heard him tell her "You have some sexy underwear" while pulling on her thong.
I woke up and he looked hesitant and stayed on her for about 10 seconds. Then he got off. It's 5 years later, he says he wants me back and wants to marry me. I told him I won't have sex with him until I'm married, he agrees to it. I sound naive, but really I am not, but I am BEING naive in this situation, because I care for him still and might still be foolishly into him.
Men what does his actions indicate ?

< class="additional-details">Additional Details 4 days ago ANOTHER QUESTION:
gentlemen or ladies:
what he did to that girl,
does that mean he liked her or just saw
her as a "h o" ? So you don't mind being seconds. You don't mind he cheated on you now after he screwed her up he wants you back. You will never forget this. You will never trust him completely. That is no husband.That is no real life. You want to be cheated if you take him back. He is a cheat. Who would do such a thing but a dog. He is a dog. one to the next. Do you want to be the other dog. Don't do it. You will loose your self esteem. Find a real friend, soul mate. Spiritual partner. Then you will be happy. Otherwise it will not last.